However, I look at my living kiddos and my heart swells with pride and joy. I am so thankful for them. I often ask myself 'what did I do to deserve these precious people?'... that is typically followed with an extreme sadness as I remember that I am not able to have one of my children with me physically and that as lucky as I am, I am also so very unlucky as well.
Slowly, I am moving forward in my journey... slowly I am excepting mine and Declan's fate. I am trying to embrace this new life... this life with a broken heart, a raw wound sitting right beneath my chest. I am always trying to see the JOY that God is consistently offering me. This weekend part of that joy was Coco's beautiful birthday cake, made by a dear friend who I would not know if I wasn't on this journey.
Another joy was this beautiful smile.... and this sweet little girl. This momma is so blessed to have her! As much as my heart hurt... as much as I wanted to take a moment to have a good cry... when I saw those blue eyes looking at me with so much joy and excitement, I knew I had to put a smile on this face of mine and keep the party moving! Enjoying as much as I could as it happens.
I will always find myself thinking about the parties I won't be having for Declan... the little smile that I should be seeing, but won't be... the squeals of delight as each new present is open that I won't hear... that immense sadness that I know I will feel is always soothed by three amazing people... My dear sweet loving husband, my goofy, brilliant oldest son Noah and my very own princess, Coco. Together the three of us are walking this journey side by side... day by day and taking each moment to try and see the JOY that is abundantly supplied to us.